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March 6, 2006: Death and Dying in Children's Literature: Walk Two Moons It's apparent that children's authors are not afraid of tackling the hard issues young people and old alike have to deal with . We all have lost or will lose someone we love. Children will face the death of young schoolmates. Some will face the death of parents and grandparents -- perhaps even siblings. It's somewhat ironic, but also appropriate, that two of the Newbery books I read this weekend, in the first anniversary week of my own mother's death last year on March 2, were about the death of a parent and a grandparent. As I tried to list these books before reading them, I had to draw on the summaries by the Library of Congress or the back cover of the books for an idea of the plot. And it strikes me how those summaries tell a story in a couple of sentences so matter-of-factly and convey little of the potential impact on the reader. They are but skeletons of a book's contents, whereas the books themselves take readers beyond themselves into someone else's mind, heart, and emotions.
I forgot Ben. He lives with his cousin Mary Lou, all of her siblings, and her parents. Their household is what you'd call rambunctious --lots of wild activity and rather loose discipline. Sal wonders why Ben doesn't live with his own mother, but she later learns his mother is in a mental hospital -- the same day Phoebe and Sal have tracked the lunatic (whose identity Sal had discovered) to his university. Phoebe is convinced he has kidnapped her mother. But when they find the "lunatic" they both feel sick. He is sitting on a bench on the grounds, and he is kissing Phoebe's mother. (This is not exactly what it appears to be, and the reason comes later that evening, when Phoebe's mother comes home.) One thing a reader will really enter into is the fertile imagination possessed by thirteen-year-old girls. Another theme is the denial felt when one loses a loved one. Both Sal's father and Mrs. Cadaver try to explain to Sal about their relationship, but Sal is so sure she knows what it is, she won't listen. Finally, the night Phoebe's mother comes home, right before the trip, Mrs. Cadaver finally makes her listen. Sal has already discovered from her teacher, who turns out to be Mrs. Cadaver's brother, that Mr. Cadaver died in a tragic automobile accident and that Mrs. Cadaver was the nurse on duty in the emergency room when her husband was brought in, along with Mrs. Cadaver's mother, who was blinded in the accident. By the time Sal has driven 100 miles on the terrifying curvy road from Coeur d'Alene to the top of Lewiston Hill, the highway on which her mother's bus had crashed, and seen its broken remains, jagged metal, and the holes through which rescuers had removed the victims, she already knows that only one person had survived -- Mrs. Cadaver, who had been sitting next to her mother. By this time she also is found by the sheriff, who sees her trying to find a way into the bus to see if anything of her mother's is there. She explains she is driving because her grandmother had a stroke just before they got to Coeur d'Alene and her grandparents are at the hospital . She tells the sheriff she learned to drive on her grandfather's farm, and when he knew he needed to stay with his wife in Coeur d'Alene, he given Sal the car keys with the subtle message to get anything she needed because he know how badly Sal wanted to be in Lewiston the next day -- her mother's birthday. The sheriff took her the rest of the way to her mother's grave, and the deputy drove grandfather's car. As Sal gazed on her mother's final resting place, she was finally able to accept the fact that her mother was not coming back. And when she and grandfather's car were driven back to the hospital, Gramps told her Gram had died early that morning. They do some grieving together. Although my description might make the book seem depressing, it really wasn't. There were touches of humor throughout, and lots of signs of growing up as the girls realized how much of what they had thought when they had jumped to conclusions wasn't true. At the end, Sal and her Dad are back at the farm in Bybanks, and Gramps is with them. And Sal is constantly thinking about what it might be like to walk two moons in other's moccasins. She's also working through her grief issues. All in all, I'd call the book moving, not depressing. It's a great book for families or classes to read together and discuss. There's lots in the book there's not room to comment on here, but one episode deals with the schoolteacher's reading of student journals aloud -- changing the names of course. I think that part has something important to say to teachers. I wanted to get into the book I read on Monday, After the Rain, by Norma Fox Mazer. But it's too late for tonight. ©2006, Barbara Radisavljevic |
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